Just why is it that whenever i’m being bitch, aka ignoring males that We have no curiosity about heading out with once more, guys won’t leave me personally alone? I’m like its bad energy that is karmic I also feel just like there’s nothing owed to anybody after 1 date, i ought ton’t need to split up with a man that I’m not dating.
Evan is i’m all over this!
It is because they’re not guys that are great. Ergo you didn’t provide them with a date that is 2nd.
Julia—I’m simply guessing right here, but since I have have a similar issue we figured i’d react lol.
We that that the thing that is happening the following is that with males you’re NOT enthusiastic about, you will be exuding yet another kind of energy…. Maybe one that’s care-free, absolve to be your self, maybe not needy, perhaps not clingy, easy-going, etc, because you’re NOT thinking about these guys.
Because of the dudes you are searching for, perhaps you’re behaving only a little differently. Also subtly? Possibly possibly you’re more stressed around them, trying hard to wow them, don’t would you like to offend, hiding your REAL self rather than permitting your normal radiance shine, you might be really worried/invested in whether or not they will phone you right back for a second date, and perhaps that vibe is seeping during your skin pores and they’re sensing it…even if perhaps subconsciously.
Idk…this is simply my GUESS. We have a problem with this too because it can feel just like some body is playing a cruel joke lol! Nonetheless it had been this current year in me(that I have ZERO interest in whatsoever), and how I act around guys who I’m crushing on real hard, and it was then that I realized: “BINGO that I started to really think about how I act around guys who are interested. ” The men I’m NOT enthusiastic about are becoming a different form of me personally compared to the people that I AM thinking about!